I'm over 50 and gyn's don't ask about birth control much anymore. But I really get pissed if I tell them I'm a lesbian and don't need birth control and they continue to ask and prompt me to use it anyway. It's almost like I have to say, "what part of lesbian do you not get!?"

I find that extremely rude and grounds for firing and finding a new gyn. None of them get sensitivity training, that's for sure. All my docs are women, very respectful and caring women. My dentist and dental hygienist are male but the sexuality issues are moot there. Still, the dental guys are pretty cool and I'm cool with that.

I hope the test results are negative or something simple to take care of.