Try being in college at my age. The freshmen get away from home and lose any semblance of modesty that their parents may have held them to.
Of course trying to explain to most of the young girls I run into that showing so much really isn't helping them. Sure it might get them more "attention" but it wont be the kind that they want (I hope that isn't the kind of attention they want anyway). That it looks pretty immature and in more than a few cases does little more than make you question the character of the young woman dressed as such.
I wish it was better understood among these young ladies that it is easier to take them seriously when they aren't showing as much skin as possible. That they can look good and even be more interesting to the male folk if they find a way to look good without showing so much skin. Or the fact that most guys who have gotten to the point of really wanting longer term relationships and so on that they tend to want someone who acts and dresses like a woman, not some immature little girl.
Oh well, i'll just be happy that the woman I am with doesn't see the need to do such things and ignore the rest. Err, wow that all sounded a bit more harsh than I had planned but I guess the basic idea is there.
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