((((garden))))

I think that going to the other side (negative) is not the answer. Think about how you want to be treated and then if you were to go to the other side, you would be treating others that way you did not want to be treated. Stepping on whatever to get to where you want to be not caring or feeling others feelings or possibly even in doing that hurting yourself more. I think that to trust someone then that trust is broken I would not trust them again. Telling someone something and then them using that against you is just not right. Why ask them in the first place?

There is enough hurt in the world without intentionally hurting others. I think taking care of you is important. Being who you are and sticking with what you know and feel to be right. I have had others that do that, ask you things and then use it against you. It is just wrong. I think you are a good person that does not do this.

You asked what makes negative behavior so acceptable to others? I think that we have lost so much today and so many people do whatever they want or can to get by with things or to get what they want. I think it has started way back when people were younger and they were not accountable for their actions and so growing up they continued. Later, they accept what they know and if it was not wrong to them then many times it is not wrong now. Many times people do negative behavior because negative attention is better than no attention at all. So many do not get the attention they need so they act out in order to get anything.

The show you watched I have seen before and they do things that are not right to get where they need to be. I think that is instilling the negative behavior and even at times a cheating behavior to take the prise. I do think it is right and what are we teaching others in those games we watch?

I hope that you get answers to your questions. I 'm not sure I have said anything but I am thinking of you. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

dps