I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We've been having some problems lately...now we are together but not. I know many of our problems are because of him and his past situations in life. He came from a broken home, a parent died, and he has had horrible relationships in the past where he has been severely hurt. I told him he needs to seek counseling and he knows this too, but he hasn't made the first step in seeking help. Is there any way I can help him do this? His past is killing our present and future. He is a good person with alot of problems and in a way he can't help who he is or what has gone on in his life. I really believe if he sought out the counseling he needed our relationship would be alot better.