oofti - sometimes, however, the scars inflicted upon ourselves through SI only produce shame. i have three scars on my thigh, horrible looking scars, that are so prominent i see them everyday. i can't just pass over them. i wish so badly to get rid of these scars, but i cant afford the over-the-counter meds that could do it.

all im saying is while you're right - some scars can be poetic - most only elicit feelings of shame, embarassment, and anger.