It's hard to stop something when the cause of the pain isn't controlled. There has to be a reason why you are needing to feel the relief that the cutting gives you.....when you are able to work through those reasons, then your month will turn into years which will turn into forever.

It's important to have a therapist that will help you work with the reasons for your feeling the need to cut. They hopefully you will also find the feeling of purpose for your life which also helps make a difference. When our life comes together & we have are better able to see life clearly, the pain can be put into the proper perspective & your cutting will become a thing of the past.....but we have to work through the issues...there is no easy way around that in order to be free from the bondages that keep us tied to the things that we feel give us the relief we need to feel.

Wishing you better days,
eskielover (Debbie)