thanks sannah Im so stressed out about everything that i am covered in hives.looks real healthy when you are hanging out at the pool.lol.going to the pool is the only place the mother wont go and i found out today that i can use the connection from the office.yay.so i havent dissapeared totally.thank god.exsept for my stress things arnt so bad as long as i keep my mouth shut and we all know im good at that.thanks for the hugs