Indeed, PC can be a home away from home, but it can also sometimes be a stress, especially when it seems nothing we say or do is right, or acknowledged, or some such. Heck, even I've felt that way here sometimes, and when I do, I take a mini-break of my own.

Certainly we're not where we were 9 years ago when this community started -- nor should or could we be. We have to grow, we have to reach new people, because that is core to our mission. What a boring place this would be if nobody new ever joined us!

But there's a balance to try and reach for -- there always is. Here, in life, you name it. I'm not sure we'll ever find that "perfect" balance (or if such a thing exists), but we should all try in our own personal lives to find the things and places that fit into our needs and wants right now. And recognize it when it changes, and allow ourselves to change along with it.

PC is meant to be a safe place to express your emotional needs on the road to recovery. And although we acknowledge long-time members with badges and what-not, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being here for a few months or a year and then finding you're ready to move on. And of course if you chose to do so, the door is always open, the light is always on, and old members are always welcomed back!

Best,
DocJohn