How is the relationship otherwise? I lived with my BF for six or seven years before he was ready to marry. I was ready before he was, I think that is typical. If the relationship is good stay with him. If not, consider counseling or leaving him. Try to focus more on the relationship than the piece of paper you get when you marry. (IMO)
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The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well. anonymous
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