If you're not in the CASE Program in your area (if avaiable) you could call and see if they offer a Family Night Out. There is one here in my part of WV. It was awesome for my first night. They have clothes that you are welcome to help yourself to for everyone in the family. They do a craft and have a Bible lesson for the kids and they serve a meal. It's fun. I met a few parents that have little ones my son's age. And if you're not in the US there might be programs similar that have something like this. But check it out.