I have been with my bf for about 14 years, 2 years ago we separated for 1 year over his lying and secret life. Now we have been back together for 1 year and back living together for about 4 months and I have just found out that he is back to keeping secrets from me when he had sworn to me he would always be honest with me after the fiasco of 2 years ago.
I have never doubted that he loves me but I am honest to a fault (get in trouble over it at times...too honest!) I always give the benefit of the doubt to people but when I am faced with lies, I completely loose it.
I really dont know what to do.....right now I cannot even look at him, dont want him to touch me...I feel so betrayed....again....
Things had been going very well between us, just came back from a great holiday and we had so many plans for the future....really dont know what to do....All I know is I wont let depression get the better of me this time...I will continue on my path to happiness, with or without him...but what do I do??????really dont like being made a fool of.....and not being able to trust the person closest to me is hell.
I cannot divulge the reasons for his lying but it has nothing to do with cheating....
How to trust again?? or just drop the asshole???????