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Originally Posted by misspretty
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. When we were first together, he wanted to marry me sooo badly. Now he says he's not even thinking about marriage. We just had a baby, we have been living together since a month after we met, and I broke down and told him how I felt (that I am truly in love with him, have always been, and my feelings just grow stronger, and that I wanted to marry him) It broke my heart to hear how he changed his mind about marrying me. Should I wait until he is ready to marry me? Or should I stop wasting my time and dump him?
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You had a baby with this man. If that didn't wake him up, nothing will. Getting him to marry you, is not going to change anything. If he ever wanted to leave, he would just leave you anyway. Does he love you, like you love him? If not, you need to move on before it's to late for you. Even though there are a lot of devorces, your child should not have to grow up knowing that you were not married. Besides, there is a lot of fish in the sea. Question is? Which one is the real one? I was lucky, my wife is more than I could ever hope for, even after all these years together.
Best,
Jerry