Thanks for the replies so far. In my case, what bothers me is my belief that if my husband loved me, he would ask about my therapy. He would want to know what I'm working on, at least, generally. I feel like he doesn't care about me since he doesn't ask. I know he thought I was wasting our money on Bt after a couple of years, but he hasn't asked me anything about Kt. I told him about the EMDR, but he shows no interest in it.

I like being asked questions. My mother always wanted to know details of my life, and was interested. My father didn't. It makes me feel unloved when my H doesn't ask.