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Old May 14, 2010, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
Sometimes I tell him, but usually I just feel hurt that he doesn't seem to care anything about my emotional state.
Is this a general statement or only related to therapy? This might be something for the two of you to work on if it is about your emotional state always. Like if you were feeling down one day or happy or disappointed (and you had not gone to therapy), he would have no interest if you tried to tell him that? I think this was the case for my XH. He really would rather talk about what he had done at work that day, or current world events than how a person was feeling about the events of the day and why. This was both about himself and about me or anyone.
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