UPDATE

while this isnt official yet there is potentially some good news on the horizon for once!!! our cores sister has a lot of connections and friends in many professions and one of her friends is a psychologist-downfall is being male-BUT-he has a colleague who works with him who is female and seems very willing and open to working with us and ALL our myriad of issues! it would be the ideal situation,and since there would be no cost to us its even better. we are just waiting on them to arrange a meeting to see how we connect but from what we are currently in we will make a connection happen!! we wil keep updating as we know more. thanks for all the continued support we cant say how much it means to us!!!