I'm right with you, Rainbow. I feel that way too sometimes. I wish H and I could have deep and meaningful conversations...but it just isn't his way. His mind doesn't work that way. Not because he doesn't love me...it's complicated, but I do very much relate. I don't think my H knows how to do deep. Do you feel that way about yours too, Rainbow? Any time I've tried I get funny looks, so I've accepted that it is what it is. Kind of like the T relationship in a way, I suppose. I guess I'm not much help.