(((anne1000))) I think if we all grew up with the same life experiences, we'd all be very boring people. You have a unique life, the good and the bad experiences, and its what distinguishes you from every other person in this world. It sounds as though your life has molded you into a very sensitive and caring person. You are not inadequate although you may feel you are. You have alot you can share with others that may make their journey through life a little easier.