Rainbow- I never really thought about this question. As to whether or why my H doesnt ask about therapy. I think he wants me to be happy and if it makes me happy, thats all he needs to know. He once asked me if I talk about him! LOL! I said I did and he asked me what I talk about so I said our marriage. He didnt ask for too many details and I gave him a general overview. Nothing I talk about with T in relation to him would be much of a surprise to him. I dont care if he asks me or not. I guess Im better with him not getting involved. I didnt ask him what he said in therapy with dt. He did share something bizarre, tho.

I guess the bottom line it I agree that most husbands arent as into delving into feelings and what is behind this or that. I say most, but there are the husbands who very much are. Im not sure if I want an H who digs into my head.

But I definitely dont see it as a relfection of his feelings for me. I just think he has other things to think about then what I talk about with my therapist. He doesnt ask about any other healthcare thing I do unless there is an issue with something.