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BlueMoon6 · May 15, 2010, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by rainbow8

(((Blue)))

Just think of the depth you and I are reaching with our new Ts! We could never have done this work with our other ones. Never!!! That's why it feels so bad. We're actually WORKING ON IT and that is painful!! You are such a good person; it makes me sad to think that you feel so damaged. Stay with it, and the T will work. I know you're in good hands with ftt.

Thanks, Rainbow. I think about that sometimes. Dt would SO not get this or go anywhere NEAR this topic. She would blow it off with a sentence or two...or say to me, "why are you telling me this?"
I really DO believe you are in good hands with kt. Just go with it. Tell her how you are feeling and she will go with that, too.

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I also hate when I bring up something important at the end of the session and then it's time to stop. I used to do that all of the time, but it made me feel so, so terrible that I try to bring up the important stuff right away, though I don't always succeed. I hope you feel better soon.

I had a suspicion I was doing it in some way purposely. I really am sure of it now! I thought I had stopped that behavior. I do need to work on really everyday here and now stuff with my kids and family and I need her feedback. She is great that way. And then there isnt enough time for the deeper places I need to go, too. Monday I will start off with the deeper and leave the kids out of my session...that would be a first.....