He knows it uspets you and so he is using it to get to you Im guessing during a time when you are not doing what he wants? If so his disorders have nothing to do with this. he's just learned to use his disorders to get his way. I'm guessing if the next time he pulls this and you look right at him and say thats fine Im going to go take a bath, do the dishes whatever) and then you go and do that he's going to think twice next time he pulls it. How do I know. I dated a guy on a motorcycle. whenever he didnt get his way, or we were disagreeing on something he would say he was going to get on his bike and run it into the first vehicle he saw driving towards him. First I bit into it gave him his way, let him make all the decisions. After months of this I had enough. I wanted to go to the fair, he wanted to stay home and wanted me to too. Liek always he made his threat and I said fine go ahead Im going to the fair and went to get ready. When I was ready to leave he walked out the door with me. when he saw I was indeed going to the fair he got on his motorcycle and headed down the street. I kept walking towards the fair. a car came along and he swerve out of its way. He caught up with me and you really would have let me get into an accident? I told him I wasn't letting him nothing. he was in complete control of his own behavior. He wants to throw a tempertantrum like my 5 year old cousin I would treat him like my 5 year old cousin and ignore the temper tantum and walk away. Now if he wanted to discuss things instead of throwing a temper tantrum next time I would be glad to do so. and I went to the fair. He NEVER again tried to manipulate me based on his mental problems of not being in control of his behavior again any disagreements we had he took the time to talk it out. Take care.