thanks so much for the support you guys
update: her dad said he took her to the dr on Friday, and that it was a straddle injury. They told her to soak in the a bath with epsom salts and to put neosporin on it.
He wouldn't tell me what dr he took her to when I asked, and then he didn't let me have my scheduled weekend visit w/the kids at all. My teenage boys were gone w/friends, and the 8 year old was on a playdate.
I really want to talk to the dr and find out if this is true, and if he even took her or if he's just saying that to shut me up. I haven't been able to talk to my daughter since Thurs night when this happened.