It is definitely a sign of a person who doesn't want to be in touch with emotions, especially yours. People who start off a relationship like this will not get better because usually as relationships get more familiar, people will treat each other with less & less sensitivity, so one that's starting off this way is NOT A GOOD SIGN of anything to come in the future.

It is definitely NOT a sign that he loves & cares about you. Remember, actions speak louder than words.....he actions are speaking very loud....HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL!!!! or he wouldn't treat you this way. No matter what excuse he uses for why he behaves this way, doesn't make it right nor does it excuse it if he should ever give you an excuse.

When someone really cares about you, they will be there for everything the good & the bad, the tough discussions & the easy ones. Distance doesn't help, but it also isn't an excuse for this behavior. It's just a sign that he doesnt want to bother with those things that matter to you.

It's definitely a sign of a person who you will never get close to if his boundaries are this on the phone, even though the phone is a difficult place to have those conversations over anyway because you can't see body language, but his actions are loud & clear. If he cared about you he wouldn't do this. Red Flag for any relationship forming beyond a long distance one you have. I wouldn't waste my time on someone who couldn't treat me better than that personally.