alex.....i'm not sure that there is a simple solution.and then another part of me thinks....the solution is very simple....lol.......when i meet someone new.i rarely feel the need to make personnal disclosures.....afterall i don't ask that of others.....if in the course of a relationship something comes up...then i'll discuss it.if its not accepted as part of who i am....then bluntly...the hell with them!.....i have "social hangups" that may limit my social abilities but if someone can't see past that......see ya!