Soal Quake,

I was thinking the same thing!

Gr3tta,

I would suggest siting down with your partner and have an open conversation with her. If she is truely meant to be someone you want to live your life with she will be open to listening to your concerns.

Who knows maybe you will be able to help her out with some struggle she is currently going though along with helping you out in your issues.

Good luck!