I so much like the idea of this post...

Even when dealing with other emotions, sometimes when we vent the people around us feel the need to react by offering suggestions or opinions which sometimes increase our stress, when all we need at the time is an understanding ear.

I admit it can be tough sometimes though... I've been currently emailing friends specifically because I want suggestions and some help with my situation. I think (hope) that I have been clear (both there and here) when I am just venting and when I am really looking for some answers.