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Originally Posted by eeyore1978
Marjan
I too had issues finding a "normal" guy. I was not looking for the supermodel or someone that was "stuck on himself". I was fed up with dating period. And next thing I knew I met someone. We have been together for 3 years now. The only suggestion is to be yourself and stop looking.  Sometimes I think we look too hard and we overlook someone that may be right in front of us.
Good luck! |
....It's interesting that everybody keeps telling me to stop looking....I haven't dated anybody for more than a year....that means I stopped looking while back.....but that's not a way at all....that's completely wrong!
Tell me this....If you want to have a job, would you stop looking???? no....
I think I wasted so much of my life by stop looking and by postponing of finding a partner in my life....by ignoring the need of having somebody in my life....and now I'm getting desperate, but still I don't know even how to start looking....
I'm sorry, but I think the suggestion of stop looking is not a good one or at least is not applying to my situation.....It's good to look for a partner, there is nothing wrong about it....
I'm very outdoor person, but that doesn't mean I'm out to hunt a guy...I just love to do different activities....I'm just simply either not lucky or not knowing what to choose!
My older sister is a great example, she wanted to have family and kids....she found out her 5 years relationship with her boyfriend does not go anywhere....so, she broke up with him...she was single for years, then she signed up for online dating and now she has her kids and family....and this has happened 10 years ago when online dating were not that popular even!!!!!
I think there is something else that I got to change in myself....I think I just fall for wrong guys over and over.....also, I'm so afraid of getting hurt again that I don't even go for date.....