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Originally Posted by Tatyana2009
Marjan honey,
Take it easy. It sounds like you are not having a good time with it all. You know, some times I feel like I just want to be alone. And that includes no seeing any faces of stranger men on the site. So I do not log onto it. Some hours pass or a day or 2 and then I feel OK with it again. Just listen to what you need at the time. Dont be so harsh on yourself. And as for friends- well, its worth taking a deep breath and thinkingg if you really want this friendship or not before you do anything. Some times just waiting a bit allows me to see the bigger picture or stuff I did not think about before. Stay cool!! Hugs xx
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Thanks Tatyana.....You are absolutely right....I should not be harsh on myself....and take it easy....one day at a time....I just don't have any good way to look into their profiles....hehehe.....I wish the site had better design like if I could have check mark more than one profiles at the time and delete them once, that would be great rather than just deleting one profile at a time.....
But I think online dating is not that bad I was thinking about....I haven't met anybody yet, but at least I can get a little bit of understanding of the guy by reading his profile and looking at his pictures....well....I don't like most of them....specially the ones that write too much about themselves and then they go on and on about what they want without thinking what they can offer to a partner.....I just want a very regular active guy....hope I will find it....hehehe....
Honesty, these days whoever is getting married is through online dating....I have so many examples....but how they do it, I don't know....
Not sure what is going on with me that instead of enjoying it, I just feel the pain on my shoulder thinking there is another thing in my life that I'm behind.....bad thinking....
thanks again....and I would love to hear your experience and stories too....
take care
Marjan