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Originally Posted by Typo
I also feel akward discussing the shame and guilt I have over my sexuality. It's like part of me is torn between, I have the right to enjoy this , and the other part of me is arguing that it was used to harm me as a child, so why should I enjoy it.
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Just pressing through the awkwardness, looking at those feelings anyway and sharing about them is exactly what it takes to dissipate them. I submit that you must already have done a good deal of that, perhaps without noticing
("You mean I've been speaking prose all my life?!" 
) or you wouldn't be close enough to your current feelings of shame, guilt and awkwardness to be talking about them now.
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Today I"m in a good place for dealing with it all, I"m acecepting, obeserving, and letting things flow.
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I noticed!!!
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Tomorrow may be another story.
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So when tomorrow comes, accept it, observe it, and let it flow. And (I'll tell you a secret) if you should ever find you're not willing to do that -- simply accept that you're not willing, observe it and let
it flow with the rest of it.
But you already knew that, didn't you?
