I personally do not. when entering college they have a sexual abuse orientation. at that orientation the students are told it does not matter what a person is wearing. it does NOT mean the person is being flirty and wants sex let alone rape. They are also teaching this in jr high and high schools and anyone recieving the servises of a crisis center are also being told this. professionals - cops, doctors, mental health professionas and so on also go through extensive training so that they also understand clothing and so on does NOT mean the person is being flirty and wants sex. I was raped on more than one occasion by relatives, boyfriend and strangers wearing a variety of clothes depending on age and weather - a childs sleeper (the kind with feet and zipper), sweat pants and sweat shirt, a bathing suit, shorts and t shirt. and so on. The fact is that I could be lady godiva and that would not make it right for someone to rape me.
Therefore nothing I wear or others wear is considered flirty to me.
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