WeePow I can relate to it being harder at night. I have two young boys that keep my mind active most times of the day and it's only at night when everyone is asleep that I have real quiet time to process things.
With my current family situation/crises - that has stepped to the front of the line and everything else is in the background. I would love to somehow juggle the two and get through this once and for all!
"When we tell the world of our agony, they look at us as if we have made a choice to stay in pain." I feel this way many a times as well.
Hope your evenings get a little better.
Peace.