My wife's one time thing, with this other guy is still weighing heavy on my mind. I try to let it go, and things were starting to calm down a little bit. No one has ever talked to people outside of the situation about the situation. He is friends with some not many, but some of my friends on facebook. It actually happened out of pure coincidence. The trouble is I can't stand fb giving me suggestions, and a few people doing these suggestions. I don't visit these people's profiles anymore and one of them is a close friend. So I just gave up on trying. Today I deactivated my account. I wanted to go totally off and never have to think about it again. It didn't work. My wife called and got a little upset that she couldn't contact me like that anymore, and she likes doing the cafeworld thing so she can build up her points. Doesn't matter I guess, but I swore off using it, even if I do have an account. I'm afraid that more questions will be "how come you're never on?" I don't want to deal with that.