Lynn: no I didn't tell my parents or anyone for that matter until I was about 19 when I told my first T. When it was brushed off I didn't tell anyone else. And the 2 girls that did it were my age or a year or two older. I was made to MB them and then they did it to me. I was so afraid and embarrased.

Thankyou (((shezbut))) it's comforting to know that I'm not alone and have someone to relate to. But I'm also sorry that you have gone through this.

I think child-child SA is more common than people would like to beleave and misunderstood therefore people like us have to live with the guilt and shame and w/e for years and are told to 'to get over it' and that it was nothing.

I'm really shy and have trouble interacting and talking with people, even online, I have all sorts of interpersonal problems and self esteam issues. I have a sevear fear of intamacy (sp) and sex. I am going to try my very best to tell my T about all this. But I'm still very afraid. Do any of you have any tips for me on how to talk about and start the convo with my T?