Well ShadowDancer...

I sent the friendship stone, with a letter attached. I didn't ask her to come back to me or tell her to get out of the relationship with Jack. I told her the story of "this guy" (being me) who got a wonderful gift from a girl... how sweet and thoughtful it was. I thanked her for contributing to my life, saying I'd become a better person for it. In the end, I said my friendship was always available to her at anytime and, to take care.

I didn't ramble on and on... there was no pressure in the letter. I only said my friendship was "there" - and always would be.

How does that sound? I'm not sure if I've done the right thing here. If there is in fact a right/wrong thing to do in circumstances like this.