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Originally Posted by AkAngel
You can have sex with the body or make love to the person. If it's about sex, the person doesn't much matter. If it's about love, the body doesn't much matter.
Perhaps behind the flirting you are flirting with love.
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This really helped, AkAngel! I think that's exactly what it is. I do love her and, therefore, what she looks like doesn't much matter. And, now that I think about it, this isn't the first time I've had this experience of feeling attracted to someone (as a person) without necessarily finding them physically hot. Thanks again for helping me sort through my feelings!