That's just it I don't want to settle and our children are 19, 16, and 14. I wanted the relationship to work and I have given it my all, but it seems at age 41 I'm just tired of the situation and would rather be alone. Most of my life I can say zi've felt like I raised our kids anyway on my own, so you're right I need to just let go and move on.
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Originally Posted by jenkins09
IMO if someone cheats on you once, and is remorseful and seeks therapy, then they deserve a second chance. This man is a serial cheater and has questionable character. Why do you feel that this is the best you deserve? remove the kids from the equation, why do you settle for this type of treatment?
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