“Am I really incorrect for asking for clarification of a problem?”
“A big issue and I can't work through it here... because it involves "here"“

your own words from your first post, if you did not want advise about these questions why ask them?
or are you only willing to take advise that you agree with and not consider any other options?,
As for me hearing only one half of the story and judging you, you are wrong, you are the one guilty of that. You have judged ME because I offered a piece of advise to questions YOU posed.
YOU are the one who has mentioned the second question, twice,
YOU are the one who keeps bringing it up, not me.
I have not mentioned anything in any of my posts in here or anywhere else regarding any perceived bias that you imply I hold against you.
I was providing you with options, if you are taking it as criticism then obviously you have chosen to ignore the advice posted, it is simple, to avoid any more anguish and pain with the person/persons you are having problems with in the forums stop talking to them,
in how much plainer English do you want me to state that?

And as for:
“You choose to judge, simulating a situation that doesn't exist,”
I refer back to question two, it was not a simulation it is in fact very real by your own words you admit that. Or have you changed your mind?
And
“posting something that has nothing to do with my situation just doesn't help me right now“. TC
it has everything to do with your situation, it is a simple answer to a simple question if this person is causing you pain, walk away. How is that not unsupportive?

What is unsupportive is to accuse me of having a bias opinion, and attacking me in your reply to a perfectly solid piece of advise. You copy pasted my first response in your last post, did you by any chance bother to look at my second post because if you did you would see:
“i was, am, in the spirit of posting, giving an objective point of view, take it or leave it. just because it might not be what you want to hear, does not mean it is wrong, or a personal attack on you.” or did you just scan read that and choose to ignore it? If you choose to attack everyone who disagrees with you, soon there will be noone left to answer your posts.