Am I really incorrect for asking for clarification of a problem?

Is what you asked, you obviously did not get the response you wanted to hear which caused you more pain, answer, back off and walk away no more pain,

The second quote can be read both ways, you can be, and were hurt, so why persist when it is hurting you? What have you to gain? Nothing. Answer back off and walk away no more pain.

The objective point of view is, if you back off the pain will diminish it is a simple answer why can you not see that?

To imply I am the one confused is beyond reprehensible. And a feeble attempt to turn this all into my fault when you are the one trying to manipulate a perfectly simple piece of advise by twisting it into something it is not.

What are you on the defensive about? You have done nothing but attack and try to label me since I posted.

could it be that the truth hurts and you dont want to hear the truth?