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Originally Posted by Typo
I"m less angry than I was then, but I do still have some, and I think I always will.
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Good work!! Everything that I have worked on I have worked on in stages or layers. Keep working on that anger! I think that you can work it all out.
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Originally Posted by Typo
I find it so very hard not to be pariond or catious of my partner, I have fleeting and constant fears of him abandoning me, just disapearing on me, I fall into this disillusion too that by discussing my relationship, it's going to "jinx" it and because I discuss my issues related to it it's going to fail or my fears are going to come true, (yes I have severe issues I know this  )
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This is fine. This is what you have to work with. It is all totally understandable considering what you have experienced.
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sometimes I find myself trying to figure out what "normal" is...
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Maybe a better word is functional. There are functional boundaries that need to be learned. There is a healthy self worth that needs to be learned. Learning the balance between your needs and other's needs. Learning to live in the moment, learning how to express feelings. These kinds of "normals"!