Thread: my marriage
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Old May 19, 2010, 05:26 PM
michelle75 michelle75 is offline
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Originally Posted by jenkins09 View Post
Are you in therapy? can you ask him to accompany you to one of your sessions so he can speak to your T and gain some perspective on the situation? 12 years is a long time to just throw it away. He is frustrated and probably feels like nothing will change. Try to be sensitive to his needs at this time too. I hope it works out for you both.

Seems like no matter how hard I try....it don't make a difference. He said he will go to therapy with me but only to preserve a our friendship for the sake of our son.....I don't know what to do . Ilove him so much and feel that deep down this is not what he wants.........HELP