i think you've done a very right thing. it is good that you avoided pressuring her and it sounds like you said just the right stuff to keep the pressure off.
i hope that you can move on and let your life take you where you are meant to go.
she is lucky to have a friend like you now let's just hope that one day she realizes that before it is too late.
((((((((((((CMFox))))))))))))

take care of yourself and let me know if there's ever anything that i can do for ya.

shadow