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Originally Posted by Jenn1fer82
Hello Rox,
It may be a simple kiss to you but you know well about what your husband have experienced in the past. you're going have to give him time and show him your sincereity that you're sorry. Now the extent of what he wants you to show him your sorry it all depends on the circumstances if its overboard or not. May I please ask you why you decided to cross the boundaries with another man. If you feel your husband isn't giving you what you need then thats another conversation that you guys must talk about. I wish you the best of luck. You're not a horrible person. In any relationship it must take two people to work it out.
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I guess a lot of it was being completely inexperienced in any sort of relationship, really. I've have a couple sexual based ones, but my husband was the first person that I actually 'dated', and the only one a well. Because of such inexperience, I've always had these romantic ideals of what I'm attracted to. He says those things are highly unrealistic. I got attached to that person because of those qualities that that other guy possessed, and his actions, that make me weak, really. It wasn't so much being attracted to the person, but those qualities that I used always thought were necessary for a 'forever' type of relationship. We have also had many conversations about what I felt was missing (i.e. those qualities and actions), but nothing ever came from it and I became more and more unhappy because of it, mainly because we have talked about it. Also, counseling never got us terribly far either.