farmergirl, I was being sarcastic when I say I want to ship them off. In fact when I went away on business for 5 days I was beside myself with anxiety from being away from my children. My favorite time of the day is home with my kids. But here lately my nerves have been worn thin and my anxiety is up and I just wish they would quit fighting and just get along for a few days. Just one or two days and I will be ready to deal with it again. I know thats not going to happen so I will just continue to enjoy my peace and quiet once their asleep. I was just looking for someone who understood.