Joanne,

I felt the same way as your boyfriend before going into therapy, I was sure that the doctors were only in it for the money. But I knew that doing nothing was only going to accomplish nothing. I was very lucky to find a very good therapist who is working with me on a lot of my childhood issues and helping me to learn new coping skills. And while I do have a long way to go, I am getting better. One thing that I've found very beneficial is group therapy. Having input from a group of your peers can really give you insights into your life that a one-on-one setting doesn't offer. If your boyfriend would like to talk to me about this I'd be glad to send you my e-mail address so I can talk to him more in detail.

Two years is a long time to invest in a relationship and it sounds like there's a lot of love there. The fact that you're reaching out like this is really wonderful on your part. I hope that things work out for the best for both of you, and remember to take care of yourself too.

Best wishes,
bptoo

"I am ready to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter."