Part and parcel of Healing is being capable of centering on Your "Self"; for therein lies the pain and all the trouble which needs to be focused on, nurtured, and reprogrammed.

It would be truly "selfish" to not want to try to feel better inside, so no one could ever know the real you!

I love your posts; and look forward to (as was suggested by Babysteps) you changing your name!!!

I will not call you by that name!!! hugs to a great person--------theo