Hi everyone,

Thanks for your answers.

I do think that she is caught in the middle of the psychological fight between her parents (her father and I). He manages to always find something to fight about.

I accepted for a long time all the bad things he did to us und I forgived him truly. I do say so because I believe in God. I do not want to search in the past. I will go on and it is the best for my daughter.

With her actual behaviour (not speeking in special cases) people do always think that she ist not normal and they want to put her in the psychatric hospital. There they told us last year that she is not ill, but they could'nt say more.

Thus, I try to find out how to live with this speechless terror thing.

Thanks anyway for your feedbacks!