I know for me personally I identfy as being bisexual, and I've asked myself this question a few times as well and think on it from time to time, but for right now in my life, I don't see a reason into being out to people about it, espically since right now I"m involved with a man, If I was to ever get involved with a woman then yeah I would come out but only because the situation called for it.
I can see being "out" as a way to maybe met other's that share your sexual preferences, or maybe get support over it if you felt confusion or felt you needed support on it.
Paddy had a very good post, it's up to you, is it going to improve the quality of your life? How is it going to change things for you? Could you handle the negativity that some people may give you for it?
I know for me personally, being out that I"m bisexual wouldn't improve my quality of life for me, and wouldn't pose any benifits or do anything for me but cause me grief because I"m not emotionally in the place to handle the possible negativity I would receive for it (small rural southren town, kinda of self explanitory)
However, if you feel it is going to benift you and help you reach the goal of being more open, then I think you should consider it, you have to do what's best for you.
Keep us all updated on what you decided
Best Wishes
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