When I was first married my husband didn't trust me. I hadn't really done anything to deserve his distrust, but he had been cheated on in the past. Once I told him I got a call from an old bf and he didn't talk to me for a long time. He was sure I was going back with him even after I told him it was probably the last call I would ever get from the guy. I walked on eggshells for the first year of our marriage, explaining every phone call, e-mail, or innocent comment I recieved from a male. Once he acused me of flirting becuase a store clerk commented on the T-shirt I was wearing.

It took a lot of time and talking, but now he pretty much trusts me, I think. For you it will probably take longer. On the good side, you admitted to what you did and it sounds like it wasn't becuase he caught you. That may help shorten the time, but really it's up to him.

Trust is so much easier to loose than to find.