I remember being in 7th grade over 30 years ago, and a boy at school tried to look down my top. I had the good sense to glare at him, pull up my neckline, and walk away. There was smoking, drinking, swearing and talk of sex, but I'm sure a lot of it was exactly that. Talk.

Openly touching on the bus shouldn't be allowed, though. You did the right thing talking to the vice principal. Another option might be calling the school board, or bringing it up at a PTA meeting.

As for underage semi-nudity on Facebook, I'm just appalled. I'm on Facebook too, and if I came across those pictures, knowing the girl in them was 13, the first thing I'd do is report the page to Facebook admins.

Or call your local police. There has to be a law against the Facebook pics, and I just had a horrible thought--could the girl in question be ignoring the sexual advances because she is being molested at home? It certainly wouldn't seem to me like this is normal behavior.