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Old May 21, 2010, 10:44 PM
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Originally Posted by shezbut View Post
My self-esteem is very, very low. I assume that's why I always take the blame and say, "I'm sorry."
Shez, what do you suppose would happen if (at some more or less appropriate time) you tried not apologizing? I mean that both ways: what would anyone else say or do differently and what would come up for you?

We could speculate that your self-esteem is low and that's why you apologize. Better try looking at that the other way around too, though, just in case it happens to fit better: could it be that your self-esteem is low in part because you apologize when you don't really think it's called for?


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Looking at stuff the other way around since... you don't really want to know how long.

Last edited by FooZe; May 22, 2010 at 01:27 PM.
Thanks for this!
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