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Originally Posted by shezbut
My self-esteem is very, very low. I assume that's why I always take the blame and say, "I'm sorry."
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Shez, what do you suppose would happen if (at some more or less appropriate time) you tried not apologizing? I mean that both ways: what would anyone else say or do differently
and what would come up for you?
We could speculate that your self-esteem is low and that's why you apologize. Better try looking at that the other way around too, though, just in case it happens to fit better: could it be that your self-esteem is low in part
because you apologize when you don't really think it's called for?

FooZe
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Looking at stuff the other way around since... you don't really want to know how long.