Loser, Dummy, Stupid, Dirty-old-black-hearted-thing

therapist pronouncing you are Borderline


A lot of people with a diagnosis of "Borderline Personality Disorder" immediately decide they are "losers" and that no therapist will work with them or like them and that they are considered bottom-feeding trash fish :-)

Hi, it's Billi. I was reading thru this forum today and came across your thread, Perna. i really appreciate this. I was diagnosed as Borderline 8 years ago and told that not too many therapists can deal with it. It really breaks my heart because borderlines have abandonment issues and serious self-esteem issues and it does NOT help that even professionals cannot be on their side or help them!

As you know, my last t really broke my heart---she claimed she treated borderlines and then dumped me.

Funny, thank goodness now I am attempting to know that it's about her, not me.

Okay, I have a lot to work on.

But no one has a right to treat me badly.

We all deserve help.

We all deserve love.

ty for sharing this!

We all get to decide who we are, not someone else!

Billi